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Still unpacking

 Well, another night alone...another afternoon/night of massive cleaning and unpacking.  Have things starting to get under control, then I remember that we still have stuff at the other house 😢.  I have a feeling that at least 1/2  of the remaining will not make it across the state line.  I just have to do it when my packrat husband is not watching.  Him being out of town a lot lately has been great for Goodwill..lol.  I get blamed quite often for "having too much stuff", but let me tell you, the man of this house is a hoarder.  I try to get rid of things and I hear "Do you know how much I paid for that?'....yes dear, but it was 30 years ago. Neither of us can fathom that almost 35 years have gone by in our marriage and housekeeping....where did the time go?  and I guess that's how we accumulated all this junk😄  Hopefully it won't be long before we can have a shed built and I can at least get the holiday boxes out of the house...lol.

Anyway...we are starting to get settled here...our privacy fence should be installed Thursday...yea!!!I have a new yard man who hauled off all the pine straw they installed for bedding...now to get border blocks and mulch...I'm a Southern girl and know what loves pine straw in the winter time....no "satan handpuppets" for me please 🐍 

Found a new boarding place for Tabby.  She is already a registered guest for Thanksgiving week. I think she will be much happier there that her previous place.  They have 8 cats that reside there full time and are the welcoming committee for the new guests.  They "take care" of the visiting cats and help them adapt.  When I went for the tour before I signed Tabby up, I was very impressed with their set-up.  

Starting to make my menu and grocery list for Thanksgiving.  Can't wait to have everyone (or most) together.  I have 2 kids that jobs have gotten in the way of traveling and they will truly be missed.  

Well, I just got bit so that means that Tabby is ready for bed...lol.  

Too much for one blog...lol

 Almost finished moving into new house.  Still a few odds and ends and things to sell at other house. I have the downstairs finished and decorated for fall...I have to have a clean place to go when I get overwhelmed with the clutter. We actually downsized as far as square footage, so I'm having a little difficulty placing everything and trying to decide what to keep and what goes. The upstairs looks like a war zone 😱  But this morning.....I receive a link to this beautiful thought process of "letting go".  Another God wink and blessing just when I need it  Click the link...it's a good read   How To Declutter When You Want To Keep Everything - Club31Women

I know things will come together, but anyone that knows me, also knows that unorganized clutter makes me nutty!!!  

Jim has been home for maybe 3 days in the last two weeks....I called and told him that I was going to need a "safe space" if he didn't get home soon.  I have had to pump my own gas, take out the trash 2 weeks in a row, load things in my car and back it up in the driveway myself....this is almost unacceptable.  I know how the college kids feel now when they have to get to class/work on time and actually work.  Poor babies...  I hope you know this is tongue-in-cheek and I am fully capable of taking care of myself,  I just like being pampered now and then 😀  

Just remember ----this too shall pass and any day above ground is a good day !!!!!

Moving Day

 Today is the day.   Pray for me.  I have never done this by myself 😱

Duck Count 🦆

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Downstairs duck hunt is complete!!!  50 ducks.....

Upstairs duck hunt is still continuing ...42 have been found - only 8 to go 🦆 

I am hereby making a declaration concerning moving.  I am aware that this is probably NOT our last move, but --- next time will be different.  I have no problem packing our belongings, but instead of trying to move all the little stuff ourselves, we will be hiring the next crew to move EVERYTHING!!!!  I'm too old for this crap...just saying.

Movers come next Wednesday.  I hope this will be over soon.  

Random Stuff

 First let me say that I hate the process of moving.  I started trying to be organized with the packing, but as time is going on, I have finally gotten to the point of "just throw the crap in a box and I'll deal with it later"😆  I'm hoping to be moved right before we go to Ozark on the 22nd or right after we get back.  Having things in two places is not fun.

Speaking of the new house...anyone that knows me, knows that I don't have second thoughts or really sweat decisions until they have already been made....then I question said decision to death knowing that it's too late to do anything about it....as I have done with this house purchase.  But a God wink has set my mind at ease and it's the craziest thought process to date for me (I think)...lol.   The house number was eating away at me because it seemed so familiar - 2056-  It took me a couple of weeks to FINALLY  realize why it was so familiar...don't laugh now...It was a phone number from my childhood and still stands to this day.....774-2056 .... is the number for the Dairy King in Ozark which I know I have dialed hundreds of times for call in orders ... God wink set my mind at ease and yes I'm sure God has a sense of humor.

When we moved my parents into a nursing home and started going thru their belongings, I found SO many things that Mother had meticulously packed away and saved for a special occasion.  She had dressy purses and shoes, pearls, dishes, clothes and anything else she deemed too good to use everyday.  Long story short....she hardly used or enjoyed any of the things she had.  Such a wasted...I am trying to break that practice.  This practice was so ingrained in me from all of the women in my family that I also have things that are put away for a special occasion...As I'm packing this house, I carefully packed my grandmother's china - which I don't believe has ever been used and 2 matching sets of gold flatware that I bought because they caught Jim's eye and he fell in love with it.  I plan on using all of this for at least 1 meal every week.  Several years ago, Jim bought me a beautiful pearl necklace.  I have been saving it for a "special occasion"  I had a special occasion last week...God granted me another day on this earth...I wore the pearls...I'm not "saving" anything else...it's time to enjoy all the wonderful things this life and God has afforded me.  I hope to pass this attitude toward possessions to my children...sometimes the "special occasion" comes too late.  ENJOY YOUR LIFE!!!  Everyday is a special occasion.

Long Update

 SO SO much has been happening that it has been difficult to stop and write about it.  But here is a little of what has been happening in our life lately.  First, after SEVERAL years, Jim needed a new CPAP machine.  The CPAP machine in our house is non-negotiable.  I’m more than certain that the severity of his Apnea would have taken his life without it.  Anyway….protocol has changed now and in addition to sleep study (which he failed miserably), Drs now want you to have stress test, EKG and Echocardiogram.  Of course this sent Jim into a nervous tizzy.  He got through all the testing and I went with him to Dr for results because we all know that he would “forget” or not tell me everything…We are prepared for anything, but when Dr. comes in and looks over chart - he goes over all the results and tells us that Jim is “golden”.  All tests came back perfect except of course the sleep study.  Prayers answered.  Now let’s take a guess at who thinks they are indestructible? 😜

Next - we are homeowners again.  We closed on our new house !!!  Not exactly what anyone would picture we would buy, but we think it will take us nicely into retirement and possibly become income property if we decide to move post retirement.  We left the NC Charlotte area and moved across the SC line.  It only adds maybe 20 minutes to Jim’s commute when he is in the Charlotte office (which is not a lot), but it is a nice small town and (whispering) the people talk like me - with a Southern accent.  The downtown area is old original buildings with small businesses and could easily be used to film a Hallmark movie…lol.  The house is smaller that what we have had before, but there are only two of us, however there is room for more should anyone need it.  We always make sure we have room for more(we got 4 bedrooms…lol).  Totally open downstairs so everyone can be in the same room whether it’s the kitchen, dining or living room.  I think I’m going to like that.  Still a lot of tweaking to do but it will be fun.

After 3 hours in the DMV yesterday, we are now South Carolinians.. but as the song goes, my home’s in Alabama, no matter where I lay my head.

The packing and moving has started - garage is almost empty and lots of boxes are full but we will be hiring movers for the furniture  Our bodies remind us that we are not in our 20’s anymore…lol

I’m writing this blog today from Tenn looking out my hotel window at the Mountain View while Jim is working then tonight we are off for our favorite outing here….Supper at Paula Deen’s and bluegrass music outside of the Moonshine store.  This is a 180 from our Tues night date which was a Guns N Roses concert in Charlotte  It was SO awesome.  I’m so glad we live in an area where we can go from one extreme to another like this!!!

Duck Count:  I think I’m close to 70 ducks now….the problem is, I have found most of the obvious ones.  They are being found in the most unusual places now that we are packing up.  Never let it be said that my children lack imagination!!!

More to come later….BYE!!