Gratitude 9 and something new

 Gratitude #9 wants me to say something that I appreciate about myself.  I guess I would have to say that I appreciate my ability to make a home.  We have lived in SEVERAL different places since we have been married.  Some very good, some with no floors....but I have always tried my best to make it a home and not just a house for my family.  Making a home and food for my family is my love language.

Now for something new --- I guess you never get to old to learn something new...talking with some random ladies on the sidewalk waiting for a store to open, we started talking about the "old days" when people worked and department stores were the places to find everything (before the Walmarts and Targets).   We were discussing the year we were born and whether we were Boomers or GenX - one lady said she was Generation Jones....none of us had every heard of this, so I looked it up.   Now I have never really fit into either of the generations - too young to belong to the Boomers and not quite old enough to belong to GenX   Guess what???  I'm a Generation Jones and it makes perfect sense.  

From Grownupdish.com

The term Generation Jones might sound mysterious at first. “Jones” refers to the slang expression “keeping up with the Joneses,” which reflects the cohort’s characteristic consumerism and often unmet expectations. Unlike the Baby Boomers who basked in post-World War II prosperity, and GenerationX who came of age in a time of lucrative uncertainty and technological change, Generation Jones gets a blend of both worlds. The formative years of this neglected generation were a period marked by social disorder, the Civil Rights Movement, the Vietnam War, and significant economic shifts.

Unlike their Baby Boomer predecessors who witnessed the peak of post-war prosperity, Jonesers were often confronted with the disillusionment of the 1970s and early 1980s. They were adolescents and young adults during the era of Watergate, the energy crisis, and a shifting global landscape. This context imbued them with a distinct sense of economic anxiety and a more pragmatic worldview.

My odd social thinking has now been explained. (somewhat) 

Gratitude 8 and other happenings

 Gratitude Journal states for #8 that I should list a skill or talent that I have...I can say for sure that my biggest talent is ADD....I have severe "ooohhhhh Shiny " syndrome.  I can't tell you how many times I have sat down to write and go down a rabbit hole on some other internet journey only to realize that I forgot to blog at all.😏  Anyway - my talents and skills are varied, but as the saying goes...I'm a Jack of All Trades and a master of none...but I have fun and isn't that the point?

On to other news...I took a trip to Gainesville to see the 3 children who are there.( mostly went for the grandchildren though 😄).  Had a great time with them all and left Jim home to work and deal with the cat by himself...He had to spend a weekend alone and fend for himself but he survived and did well. Extremely grateful to have me back home though. I'm starting to get a little nervous traveling by myself so I don't know how many more times I will be doing that but I'll keep going until I can't anymore.

Finally finished an afghan that I had been working on for a while.  Over 500 individual small granny squares...then laid out in pattern and hand sewn together.  Whew!!  Maybe another I'll make one like it in a different color next winter. 

I know that I'm really behind technology, but I have just discovered USB light bulbs!!!  Game changer!!!  I can now put lamps wherever I want to without having power!!!  I see alot of those in my future!!!

We have given Tabby the nickname of Gladys as in Kravitz...every night we walk by my office and see her sitting in the window being nosy and watching the neighborhood happenings 😼

That's all for tonight.  Maybe I can remember to write again without too much of a time lapse.

My husband and his birds

 Yesterday I received a package from my Mother-in-love.  I couldn't imagine what it could be.  She has the best ways of surprising me with little things she knows I would like or would find funny.  I opened the package and there was the cutest sign with a squirrel telling me that my bird feeder was empty and a window mount bird feeder.  Now Jim has just come home from visiting her a week ago so I'm thinking he told her about the bird feeder in our yard and how we was tired of refilling it all the time.  But the more I thought about it, why would she send it to me?  Then it occurred to me that he had put his bird watching hobby on me because he doesn't want anyone to know about it.  That is Karen's bird feeder and Karen's birds.  He just keeps it going "for me"  So I called him about it (out of town as usual) and asked if he told his mama about 'MY" bird feeder.....answer was...."well, I might have said something to that effect". BUSTED!!!  It's time you owned up to being the bird lover you are !!!  I loved the sign though....it's hanging by my patio doors 😂 Love you Ma💓

 

Gratitude 7 + other things

 The request is "Your Best Friends"   Another easy one - 1st and most important will be my husband.  He is my rock.  I don't always discuss everything with him and he doesn't know my feelings on EVERYTHING ( sometimes he's a sensitive bugger) but all the important stuff....he's number 1.

Then there's the children....there is a difference between daughters and sons.  The sons are more protective and not interested in the shopping and lunches, however, if you need something "manly" done , they are the ones to call.

Daughters are a different story - they are my daily callers.  I hear from at least one of them every day.  Boys I hear from not so much.  I was blessed with 3 of each so it's even.  However, the girls are always ready for a FaceTime call, gossip session, laughter and bitch session.  When we are together, it's always shopping or eating or just sitting outside discussing life.  

Other Things

I have a friend that I met a the car wash last year.  We sat and talked long after our cars were finished and I thought she was leaving when I noticed she drove back up.  She walked over and asked if I would like to exchange info and meet for lunch one day...that started a year of texting and lunches and laughing.  She texted me a couple of weeks ago to talk about a dr. visit she had for a routine exam.  Her heart was irregular and they wanted more testing.  Long story short, they scheduled her for a valve replacement last Monday.  She kept telling me how scared she was and had a bad feeling about this.  We kept praying and I kept trying to reassure her that she was tough.  Monday came and went and I was giving her time to get back to herself before I called her.  Her daughters were with her and I was sure she was enjoying their company.  Friday afternoon, I got a call from her husband apologizing that he hadn't called sooner, but things had just piled on him and this was the first chance he had. Gail did not make it through her surgery.  Drs told him that her heart was too far gone and they couldn't even get the stitches to hold for the new valve. My heart was broken.  She had a feeling that this wouldn't go well.  Goodbye my "carwash friend".  I'm glad God put you in my life for the short time he did.

Other happenings for the weekend were - Emily and Cody came up for the weekend.  We finally had kids (Jake and Emily) together for a birthday dinner.  We added Cody to the mix too because his birthday was just a couple of weeks ago too.  We had a good time - out to a Brazilian steakhouse then back home to play games.  Cody watched the Masters and Jim did Emily's taxes.  We all tried to coax Cody into conversation and he would answer any question you asked, but definitely not a chatterbox.  We will get him out of his shyness before long.  You have to be tough and speak your mind in this family😄

Gratitude #6

 Gratitude #6 - Your biggest supporters in life -

I would have to say my biggest supporters are my family.  Any idea I throw at them, they are always supportive and tell me I can do it.  And yes I k now they are rolling their eyes behind my back telling each other that I have totally lost my mind.  But that's ok.  They're mine.

Gratitude

 I am combining day4 and day5 of gratitude because to me they are basically the same thing.

Day 4 wants the best thing that's ever happened to you and Day 5 is Your greatest achievement.

Other than accepting Jesus as my Lord and Savior which is #1, I would say meeting Jim and building a family with him is the best thing that's ever happened to me.  We have had other accomplishments in our married life, but our children are our best achievement.  

Still catching up so we will go on to February  - SAIA committee week was easy this year since it was in Charlotte. Tabby still had to be boarded because we stayed in the city instead of driving back and forth every day.

Then my smart butt decided I wanted to redo my office/craft room. I emptied everything, went thru it, and got rid of half of my stash.  Jim redid my closet with shelving and I painted the walls a very pretty yellow to brighten the room up , a big improvement from the builder greige.  Everything was put back in place and decorated and pictures on the wall.  It is such a nice place to retreat to.  And as with all endeavors, we learn something about ourselves.  Jim and I both learned that our house painting days are pretty much over, and that professional painters need to make a living too.

Gratitude

 Gratitude Prompt for Today - Any things you have that the majority of people don't

This one is easy....there are many things that I am blessed with that most these days are not....let's start off with my husband.  A faithful man with a steady job that allows me the privilege of deciding if I want my own job or not ( and he's ok either way).  Even though he travels quite frequently, it has allowed me to raise and homeschool our children without outside influences.  Now that the kids are grown and most have a family of their own, I'm able to travel with him when I want to.

Now the children - all have good jobs, none are in jail or on drugs, all are in reasonably good health, and have each other's backs. Can't ask for more than that.

As you can see, although I do love the material things, they are not my first priority.